June 17, 2008 - One month later...

Well, not quite a month but a very long time since I have posted. It certainly has been busy. We should have a copy of our updated homestudy today and then we are just waiting on the USCIS to give us our approval. I really hope it goes faster this time.

Both Caelia and Lera had their Down Syndrome Clinic appointments. Minneapolis Children's Hospital has a great place to coordinate care for kids with Down syndrome. It was pretty routine for Caelia (she's been here before) but Dr. Moore is a very nice man with lots of suggestions about potty training, nutrition and keeping Caelia from escaping (more about this later).

Valeria's appointment was a bit more complicated. She will need spinal x-rays, a hearing test and an echocardiogram. These are all regular tests for children with Down syndrome that she would have had as she grew - they also reassure mama and daddy that she is alright. Her gait is another issue. I mean the way she walks is a bit odd - especially when she starts to walk fast or run. Dr Moore's diagnosis is that she hasn't developed the neuropathways that are necessary to process the transitions required to walk or run on varying surfaces. I guess what he is saying is that she spent her whole life on concrete floors and very flat orphanage playgrounds in hard leather shoes, so she isn't able to compensate for things like grass and sand and running up hill. The therapy for this is playing in the grass and sand and climbing up hills. We can do this. She may never have the ease of walking that Caelia does but Caelia will never have Lera's talent for climbing.

Valeria climbs like a monkey. She climbs over the wrought iron fence in our front yard and over the deck railing. She climbs up the outside of the stairs. She climbs over the top of anyone in her way to getting to her spot on Daddy's lap. She is teaching these skills to Caelia. We will be putting in a higher fence.

We put in a play area for the girls. We will eventually put in a new climber, for now they have their little tykes play stuff and a sandbox. We put a retaining wall in to pretty up the area and I like being rid of the railroad ties - I always worry about bees. I think it looks nice. The girls played outside the whole time. We looked up at one point from digging to see both girls had stripped naked and were running about in the breeze. They were not happy when we re-dressed them. Caelia was so disgruntled with us that she took herself off to the front yard. After about 5 minutes we went to check on her and could not find her. And although all the gates were locked, we sent Michael out on his bike and I searched the house. Randy got in the van and was just pulling away when I saw him hit his brakes and back up. He got out of the car and pointed. She had never left the yard. She was hiding under the peony bushes. She was mad so she didn't choose to answer when we called her name. I will be really happy when her tracking bracelet arrives.

Caelia has made some wonderful advances since Lera arrived. I can't recall how many hours we worked twisting the tops off of bottles to improve her fine motor skills. She finally did this on her own. I am very proud of her. She decided she wanted to paint (Caelia likes art) so she went to the art cabinet and helped herself to the tempra paint. Brand new bottle (seal intact) of beautiful fire engine red. She opened it and walked through the house dribbling it as she went. She poured a puddle in the kitchen, one in her room and one in Lera's room. I should have known something was up - Lera was whining and saying Caelia and looking very unhappy. So I left the laundry and walked upstairs to see what was happening. I was greeted with little red foot prints trailing across my living room rug. I found Caelia in her room with both arms covered to the elbow in red paint. BATH TIME!!!! Then it was time to steam clean the carpet. Randy asked while we were steam cleaning if I was sure that I wanted another little one? YES. I didn't need to think about the answer much. I may not like cleaning up these messes but I never think of these messes as anything but normal kid messes - they just occur a bit more frequently and a bit longer than other kids. And while, it may be debatable that my little brother Ryan is typical, he managed to set the bathroom on fire trying to perform some sort of Harry Potter magic experiment at the age of 13, so a bit of paint is nothing catastrophic. Neither is food coloring, which she found a week later and poured all over Lera and herself. Too bad it was Father's Day and Randy had taken our camera (and Michael) to the Star Wars exhibit at the Science Museum. Caelia and Lera did look adorable as Easter egg colored girls and oh! did I wish I had the camera.

Kids will be kids. And I know that I will have many opportunities to photograph their messes in the future. Until then I will make sure to pick out furniture and carpet that washes or hides stains well. Won't wear white t-shirts and pants. And will plant the flower gardens with plants that aren't poisonous and have enough flowers for little girls to pick them and give them to everyone they see.

5 comments:

AZmomto7 said...

Oh goodness gracious, I read that with and understanding smile on my face. Life may be chaotic, but it is never boring, and even though my house looks like a hurricane went through it most of the time, I am still happy to be going to adopt sweet Amanda to add her vivaciousness to the mix!

I am so happy you updated your blog; I kept going to it and seeing if you had written anything new. :o)

Randy and Sheila said...

Kris, thank you for checking in on my blog - I do feel guilty for not posting more often - but its nice to know that someone is reading my meanderings. Congratulations on your trip - I am looking forward to hearing about your little Amanda - I love Meagan and Kara. - Sheila

WheresMyAngels said...

Too funny about the paint! Well at least on my side of the fence. Aysha my youngest poured out two bottles of glue on the floor, I didn't realize it, until about a week later!! lol

Anonymous said...

Hi Sheila & Randy - We were happy to read your updated blog too. It sounds like you all are getting along very well. We will be up in the Twin Cities at the end of July. Hopefully we can all get together. We are anxious to meet Lera and see you all. Take care! Love, Bill, Sheryl & Melissa

Randy and Sheila said...

I look forward to seeing you at the end of July! I am trying to get better at posting but Caelia and Lera are determined to be outside playing and I can never resist playing with them.

Sheila